[meteorite-list] Taking Offence - A Repost
From: Michael L Blood <mlblood_at_meteoritecentral.com>
Date: Sun Jun 13 19:02:45 2004 Message-ID: <BCF22713.B3BF%mlblood_at_cox.net> Dear Bernd, As a list member I was greatly relieved to read your recent post. I was originally flabbergasted, but then just realized we are ALL only human. Thanks for being a good one. Best wishes, Michael on 6/13/04 2:26 PM, bernd.pauli_at_paulinet.de at bernd.pauli@paulinet.de wrote: > Hello Gregory and List, > > I've been sitting here at my computer for quite some time now, > brooding, considering, reconsidering, and feeling very uneasy > after re-reading this post many times: > > I once wrote: > > " ... , I am taking offense to your harmful comments > and the way you twist other list members' comments." > > Gregory then responded: > > "And Bernd is about as nonpartisan and imperturbable a member as the list has. > Isn't there a "line" of common decency SOMEWHERE, past which a member > deliberately forfeits his own "good standing"? Sadly, it seems not to be the > case. Thanks for the post, Bernd - I'm sure everyone else feels the same > way too, but there seems to be a curious reluctance to publicly express it. > > Well, it is easy to go off but hard to clean up the mess. Were there reasons > why I exploded? Yes, there were! Is it a justification to go off on someone > like I did? No! > > I was neither "nonpartisan" nor "imperturbable" a few days ago and I blundered > when - though by mistake - I sent Gregory's private comment and my response > to it to the list. > > When I told my Pauline (my wife :-) that Gregory wanted an apology, she said > without hesitating a second: " Whatever he did, you've made a mistake. Yes, > I think you should apologize!" > > As you can all see it took some days to sink in but the message finally > arrived > at the bottom. So, Gregory, please accept my sincere apologies for my having > gone over the line of "common decency". > > The only one who dared at least "hint" at such an "uncalled for" reaction was > Dave Andrews, who wrote at the end of his mail "probably said too much > already". No, Dave, you didn't! Thank you! > > I may be one of the major contributors to this List but this doesn't - and > above all - > shouldn't give me the right to attack and flame list members in such an > unqualified > manner. > > Feeling much > better now, > > Bernd > > ______________________________________________ > Meteorite-list mailing list > Meteorite-list_at_meteoritecentral.com > http://six.pairlist.net/mailman/listinfo/meteorite-list -- "It is always a simple matter to drag people along whether it is a democracy, or a fascist dictatorship, or a parliament, or a communist dictatorship. Voice or no voice, the people can always be brought to the bidding of the leaders. This is easy. All you have to do is tell them they are being attacked, and denounce the pacifists for lack of patriotism and exposing the country to danger. It works the same in every country." - Hermann Goering -- When Jesus said "Love your enemies" I think he probably meant don't kill them. Anonymous -- For perspective, try THIS: http://micro.magnet.fsu.edu/primer/java/scienceopticsu/powersof10/index.html -- cool message fro Ben & Jerry: www.TrueMajority.org/oreo -- AMAZING photos of Aurora Borealis, etc. http://faculty.rmwc.edu/tmichalik/atmosphere.htm -- Hubble space telescope - AMAZING photos!: http://wires.news.com.au/special/mm/030811-hubble.htm -- http://www.costofwar.com/ -- SUPPORT OUR TROUPS: http://www.takebackthemedia.com/onearmy.html -- Worth Seeing: Earth at night from satellite: http://antwrp.gsfc.nasa.gov/apod/image/0011/earthlights_dmsp_big.jpg -- - Interactive Lady Liberty: http://doody36.home.attbi.com/liberty.htm -- Earth - variety of choices: http://www.fourmilab.ch/earthview/vplanet.html -- Michael Blood Meteorites: http://www.michaelbloodmeteorites.com/Received on Sun 13 Jun 2004 06:45:23 PM PDT |
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