[meteorite-list] Meteorite presentations (sorry if it's long!)

From: Michael Farmer <farmerm_at_meteoritecentral.com>
Date: Thu Apr 22 10:06:59 2004
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Edward, dont worry, I always feel that way and people always tell me =
that they liked the presentation. You will never please everyone, but =
when you get that one person who gets interested in meteorites with your =
talk, then it was all worthwhile.=20
Mike Farmer
  ----- Original Message -----=20
  From: Edward R. Hodges=20
  To: meteorite-list_at_meteoritecentral.com ; =
meteoritecollectorsassociation_at_yahoogroups.com=20
  Sent: Thursday, October 10, 2002 8:29 PM
  Subject: [meteorite-list] Meteorite presentations (sorry if it's =
long!)


  Hello list. It's very active today, I like that. Last night I gave a =
meteorite presentation at the San Diego Lapidary Society. It most =
certainly was not the first presentation I've ever given in front of =
people, but it was the first one about meteorites. Their general =
meeting was called to order at 7pm, and they went about their business. =
You know, Robert Rules of order kind of stuff, and a raffle. It was =
quite pleasant actually. Most of the membership is quite a bit older =
than myself and my girlfriend. One kind older gentleman came over and =
told me great stories about the meteorites he's found. Other members =
came up to me with three different rocks and asked if they were =
meteorites, unfortunately they were not and I had to be the one to break =
the bad news. I finally got to speak around 8:15pm and was quite =
nervous. I made up a packet of text that I wrote with graphics, images, =
and other statistics and passed them out. I also brought about 50 =
specimens to show around and some moldavites and tektites. I really was =
geared up to give a really great talk, I had already visualized it in my =
head. So I introduced myself, and quickly warned them that:" I have a =
tendency to go off on tangents and never come back. Oh, and I'm =
longwinded at times, so I'll be sticking to the script" So I was very =
nervous all of a sudden and started to stammer and forget the words and =
had to begin reading. I told them about the beginnings of the solar =
system, accretion, asteroids, oxygen isotopes, fall statistics, =
identifying meteorites, classification with actual samples of each =
class, chemical make -up, Prospects for life elsewhere (alh84001, =
murchison, Allende,etc.), then I told them about the new large object =
that was just announced on Monday. Wow was I imparting the goods on =
these people. Then I looked up and people were nodding off, the people =
in the back had already snuck out. I had been talking for about 45 =
minutes. I could feel that hollow pit in my stomach becoming an abysmal =
void and I was getting sucked down. I could feel the beads of sweat =
forming on my bald head, my girlfriend was staring right at me. I =
wrapped in up quickly, and asked if there were questions. The few people =
who hadn't snuck out already had plenty of questions, and some were =
quite tricky. One woman right up front told me about her grandfather =
getting his haystack burnt down by a meteor. I didn't know what to say. =
I blurted out "Really, how interesting!" It doesn't quite seem possible =
to me, but I couldn't tell her that. I think it was well past there bed =
time, because after I ended the talk they politely clapped and got the =
hell out of there. I knew as soon as I sat down in the car what had gone =
wrong. I'm very hard on myself, very critical. My girlfriend told me =
what a great job I did, which is nice and I think she was trying to be =
nice. If you are this far down into this diatribe you've probably =
already got me pegged. I'm a nervous talker, and I'm longwinded. Strike =
one. I hadn't pictured the right audience in my pre-visualization. =
Strike two. I had mistaken a meteorite talk with a meteorite lecture. =
Strike three. When I was falling asleep last night I couldn't help =
thinking that I could know so much more on the topic. I now realize that =
all that information is not the important thing. The important thing is =
that you are entertaining the audience and creating an experience that =
they will remember. If your lucky they will learn something. I'm going =
to try and keep those things in mind next time. I'll try to be more show =
and less tell. Hopefully others of you have had these types of =
experiences and would share them. Maybe some of you can offer some tips, =
or criticisms. Perhaps some of you will tell me to please not write long =
emails and send them to this list. Anyway, I hope sharing was a good =
idea.- Edward

  Edward R. Hodges
  www.meteoriteonline.com
  IMCA # 4173


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  <A title=3Dedwardrhodges1_at_san.rr.com=20
  href=3D"mailto:edwardrhodges1_at_san.rr.com">Edward R. Hodges</A> </DIV>
  <DIV style=3D"FONT: 10pt arial"><B>To:</B> <A=20
  title=3Dmeteorite-list_at_meteoritecentral.com=20
  =
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itecentral.com</A>=20
  ; <A title=3Dmeteoritecollectorsassociation_at_yahoogroups.com=20
  =
href=3D"mailto:meteoritecollectorsassociation_at_yahoogroups.com">meteoritec=
ollectorsassociation_at_yahoogroups.com</A>=20
  </DIV>
  <DIV style=3D"FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Sent:</B> Thursday, October 10, =
2002 8:29=20
  PM</DIV>
  <DIV style=3D"FONT: 10pt arial"><B>Subject:</B> [meteorite-list] =
Meteorite=20
  presentations (sorry if it's long!)</DIV>
  <DIV><BR></DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3D"Arial Black">Hello list. It's very active today, I =
like that.=20
  Last night I gave a meteorite presentation at the San Diego Lapidary =
Society.=20
  It most certainly was not the first presentation I've ever given in =
front of=20
  people, but it was the first one about meteorites.&nbsp; Their general =
meeting=20
  was called to order at 7pm, and they went about their business. You =
know,=20
  Robert Rules of order kind of stuff, and a raffle. It was quite =
pleasant=20
  actually. Most of the membership is quite a bit older than myself and =
my=20
  girlfriend. One kind older gentleman came over and told me great =
stories about=20
  the meteorites he's found. Other members came up to me with three =
different=20
  rocks and asked if they were meteorites, unfortunately they were not =
and I had=20
  to be the one to break the bad news. I finally got to speak around =
8:15pm and=20
  was quite nervous. I made up a packet of text that I wrote with =
graphics,=20
  images, and other statistics and passed them out. I also brought about =
50=20
  specimens to show around&nbsp;and some&nbsp;moldavites and tektites. I =
really=20
  was geared up to give a really great talk, I had already visualized it =
in my=20
  head. So I introduced myself, and quickly warned them that:" I have a =
tendency=20
  to go off on tangents and never come back. Oh, and I'm longwinded at =
times, so=20
  I'll be sticking to the script" So I was very nervous all of a sudden =
and=20
  started to stammer and forget the words and had to begin reading. I =
told them=20
  about the beginnings of the solar system, accretion, asteroids, oxygen =

  isotopes, fall statistics, identifying meteorites, classification with =
actual=20
  samples of each class, chemical make -up, Prospects for life elsewhere =

  (alh84001, murchison, Allende,etc.), then I told them about the new =
large=20
  object that was just announced on Monday. Wow was I imparting the =
goods on=20
  these people. Then I looked up and people were nodding off, the people =
in the=20
  back had already snuck out. I had been talking for about 45 minutes. I =
could=20
  feel that hollow pit in my stomach becoming an abysmal void and I was =
getting=20
  sucked down. I could feel the beads of sweat forming on my bald head, =
my=20
  girlfriend was staring right at me. I wrapped in up quickly, and asked =
if=20
  there were questions. The few people who hadn't snuck out already had =
plenty=20
  of questions, and some were quite tricky. One woman right up front =
told me=20
  about her grandfather getting his haystack burnt down by a meteor. I =
didn't=20
  know what to say. I blurted out "Really, how interesting!" It doesn't =
quite=20
  seem possible to me, but I couldn't tell her that. I think it was well =
past=20
  there bed time, because after I ended the talk they politely clapped =
and got=20
  the hell out of there. I knew as soon as I sat down in the car what =
had gone=20
  wrong. I'm very hard on myself, very critical. My girlfriend told me =
what a=20
  great job I did, which is nice and I think she was trying to be nice. =
If you=20
  are this far down into this diatribe you've probably already got me =
pegged.=20
  I'm a nervous talker, and I'm longwinded. Strike one. I hadn't =
pictured the=20
  right audience in my pre-visualization. Strike two. I had mistaken a =
meteorite=20
  talk with a meteorite lecture. Strike three. When I was falling asleep =
last=20
  night I couldn't help thinking that I could know so much more on the =
topic. I=20
  now realize that all that information is not&nbsp;the important thing. =
The=20
  important thing is that&nbsp;you are entertaining the audience and =
creating an=20
  experience that they will remember. If your lucky they will learn =
something.=20
  I'm going to try and keep those things in mind next time. I'll try to =
be=20
  more&nbsp;show and less tell. Hopefully others of you have had these =
types of=20
  experiences and would share them. Maybe some of you can offer some =
tips, or=20
  criticisms. Perhaps some of you will tell me to please not write long =
emails=20
  and send them to this list. Anyway, I hope sharing was a good idea.-=20
  Edward</FONT></DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3D"Arial Black"></FONT>&nbsp;</DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3D"Arial Black">Edward R. Hodges</FONT></DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3D"Arial Black"><A=20
  =
href=3D"http://www.meteoriteonline.com">www.meteoriteonline.com</A></FONT=
></DIV>
  <DIV><FONT face=3D"Arial Black">IMCA # 4173</FONT></DIV>
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